communal living

i just wonder how much of our lives truly belong to us? our lives are all intertwined to the point where a person cannot make a decision or action that wouldn't affect someone else.

before everything i do, i can't help but think just how is this going to affect others? and if that's the way i see it, i can't even live my life the way i want to, because there are too many things to consider.

the only one thing that we have as humans are our lives. so if it doesn't really belong to us, where does that leave us? we have nothing but we also have each other.

our lives, futures and destinies are all shared in one big mess, and it's impossible to determine what's mine and what's yours. it's all ours. that's what we have.