which one are you?
i've come to the conclusion that over the years, i've subconsciously grouped all the people i know into 2 distinct categories: those that i have faith in, and those that i consider hopeless.
by faith, i mean that i have confidence in their abilities, their moral standards, their level of intelligence, etc. almost all of those in this category are people who i am close to, that over time i have decided that yes, you are good, you won't let me down.
and in the other group, hopeless means that i do not consider them to be worth my time, either due to their attitudes, level of stupidity, personalities, etc.
but strangely, when people in the hopeless group do something stupid, i will get angry and wish to destroy them. this shouldn't be the case since whatever they do is of no concern to me.
on the other hand, when people whom i have faith in do something stupid, i will never get angry. i will just feel sad and disappointed that i have put my faith in the wrong person. if this happens a few more times, the person would be silently relegated into the other group.
by faith, i mean that i have confidence in their abilities, their moral standards, their level of intelligence, etc. almost all of those in this category are people who i am close to, that over time i have decided that yes, you are good, you won't let me down.
and in the other group, hopeless means that i do not consider them to be worth my time, either due to their attitudes, level of stupidity, personalities, etc.
but strangely, when people in the hopeless group do something stupid, i will get angry and wish to destroy them. this shouldn't be the case since whatever they do is of no concern to me.
on the other hand, when people whom i have faith in do something stupid, i will never get angry. i will just feel sad and disappointed that i have put my faith in the wrong person. if this happens a few more times, the person would be silently relegated into the other group.
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