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looking at the couples around, i get very confused by what it means to be a 'boyfriend' or a 'girlfriend.' for simplicity's sake, i shall concentrate on the former, since it also applies more to myself. so i look at all the boyfriends, i struggle to find a common point from which to begin.

there are nice ones who treat the girls well, bastard ones who do what they do best, noob ones who buy flowers during valentine's, and stupid ones who believe the girls when they say valentine's is totally lame and not important.

some are around their girls 24/7, while others only meet once a week. then there are the loyal ones, the cheating ones, the violent ones and the emotional ones. there are even those who deserve to be chokeslammed through a table for allowing the girls to walk all over their heads.

if ALL of them are boyfriends, then what does it really mean to be one? and following that point, what good does it bring to be 'in a relationship?'

a boyfriend is like a big question-mark, an ambiguous label that they put on. so why do people find it so important to be part of this mess? jump into the giant question-mark shaped hole. cage themselves in something that exists only in their imagination, define themselves with this ambiguity.

"hey this is my boyfriend!" it really doesn't mean a thing. or does it? maybe one day i'll try it and let you know. now, should i be the violent one or the cheating one? definitely not the one getting chokeslammed, that's for sure.