arienette

"...the way they talk about the guy’s feelings of being excluded in a social conversation they had earlier. the way they could see each other’s vulnerability and make an effort to protect one another. the way they feel it’s okay to feel this way, to feel vulnerable..."

i read this on my friend's blog and i sort of realised that i've never thought of a relationship in this way before. to me, such issues are more of personal problems that i think that you have to deal with on your own, because at the end of the day, it's all in your head and only you can fix it.

anyway a relationship is already a fecking minefield on its own, and i'm sure it could make do with one less problem. "sharing your problems" just mean that you remove some of the weight and let someone else carry it. in the end the weight still has to be carried.



this is the perfect song for people who feel the opposite of me. the world is a scary place, and arienette is the only one who can keep him safe and sane. one girl to make everything worth living through.