for love or money

i often hear people saying that if a guy doesn't have a good job (meaning a high-paying job), then no girl would want him and blah blah.

sometimes i hear guys saying that once they get rich and successful, girls would be throwing themselves at them and blah blah.

but isn't this one of the greatest problems that plaque rich people? they always have to wonder (and worry) if others, friends and lovers alike, are only there for their money.

so why do people want to bring this predicament upon themselves?

and why would anyone be interested in a girl that only wants their money? unless it's just for the sex then all i can say is happy fucking!