the nights gone by

tonight i learnt that people may treasure different aspects of their lives, some in certain areas more than others.

tonight i've learnt that there's a stark and significant difference between a work-friend and a friend from work. 

on my end, i've never bothered with work-friends. every person i've met through work that i've spent personal time with, i've known enough about them to treat as a friend. 

i've learnt that sometimes i do make the right decisions in my relationships. 

unbelievable as it may sound, especially to my inner circle and ex-lovers. 

sometimes... sometimes i am correct. it may not be apparent at the first moment, but as time goes on things become clearer. 

today i learnt that you should never compare yourself to another person. i've known this for years but to witness (once again) the level of vitriol is astounding. 

there is literally no end to it and at every step all i see is jealousy and disquiet. 

 tonight i learnt that good friends are hard to come by and even harder to keep. 

friendships don't remain the same forever so pick the right ones to keep.